Sorry for seldom responses, I don't want this forum to be seen (at home, computer is visible from everywhere) so I am responding only from work.
So for financial part I will try to settle everything sooner rather than later.
Today we had sx - she was horny and wanted 'one last time'. I have a feeling that this will continue for few more times since she is still living with me.
I have read through lot of topics Cadet posted, Sandi's rules are great... but still what does it say about behaving in such situations? Do I play along, do I reject her? So far I have rejected her sometimes when I was not in the mood, other times I played along...
After sx she said that she feels guilty because she is not in love in me anymore, and that she never loved me passionately, more like a friend.
She also wants divorce to be settled soon (because we are obliged by law to try to reconcile in front of therapist because of the child), is it wise to make obstacles in that way or play along? Being proactive about this does seem counterproductive?
Any response is valued, thanks again Cadet, Azzork and Cristy
Me38,W36,D9 M 10y, R 14y
10/11/2015 wants to leave 25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans Jan 2016 started DBing Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms Sep 2016 sleeping in same room