You guys know I love to share extremely good info! Today's post comes from the public postings by MWD that Cadet posts for us here. I needed this great reminder. Pass it along if you think others do, too.

Originally Posted By: Cadet

Divorce Busting, from Michelle Weiner Davis
(Cadet's Thread: DB, FB, and Twitter from MWD #2
January 6 at 3:56pm � Boulder, CO

As I told you all, I have just undergone shoulder surgery and
it is reminding me of several lessons I always teach people when they're struggling in their marriages.
The first is the importance of patience.
Your marital problems were a long time in the making.
Change never happens over night.
If you are impatient, you will behave in ways what will make positive outcomes less likely.
Going slowly speeds things up.
The second is not to assume that the way you're feeling right now- down- is the way you will be feeling forever.
Things will change.
Your feelings will change.
You must keep perspective.
Honor your feelings now, but don't get swallowed by them.
Michele Weiner-Davis

Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti