Quote: That's why it is very important to leave them alone as much as possible and do for yourself. It's hard when there are children involved, but you have to focus on you and your son at this time. There's nothing you can do for him, except listen and be supportive.
I think I'm getting what I need to do here. What I was doing when H wasn't living at home. Live my life, out of common courtesy give H the opportunity to join in and/or ask my H for dates. If he declines or has his own plans, don't take it personally and just go about my business. Give H first right of refusal of being with S when I do have plans with freinds, etc., but if H declines, check with family members or get sitter.
I think I was just awfulizing everything about MLC, thinking H would be the worse case scenario and maybe it caused my mood of the last few days.
I do feel my mood lightening as it gets closer to quitting time...TGIF...going to pick up a few movies maybe, have a beer, kick back and relax. I'm in the mood for a funny movie, I think the School of Rock is out on DVD, would love to see Starsky and Hutch, but will wait for that to come out on DVD...love Ben Stiller!
H hasn't called me yet either. Am wondering if his appointment went this long or if he just doesn't want to talk about it...I'll find out when I get home I guess.
