Cathy, I feel for you, but snoddery is right and love the post! You are just feeling overwelmed here is all! You just need to let your H go through this journey without your help. Be a friend and listen, try to deetach from his drama, not easy, I know!
Snoddery~ Thanks! Funny but this morning I was feeling overwelmed by others posts. I have to remember that I can not help solve anyone's problems here but leand an ear or a shoulder. Sometimes I get so fustrated, that I can't help. So here is a DB principal~drop the rope! LOL
I totally agreed with what you posted to Cathy! And I for one look so hard into all this MLC. Try to apply what works for others, ect. Each sitch is different and you have to moniter the results, sometime what works for one sitch does not work with another.
Thanks for making some good points here, I needed to hear them! I have decided that the threads that overwelm me, I must stay out of, they do bring me down and make it hard for me to work on my sitch!
Hugs, Cathy! I think your are awesome, don't feel we put you up on a pedistal and you can't hit walls. What you are going through is normal and you will have ups and downs, we all do!
