Wife wants to separate at end of school year

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Bhuda,

In the beginning of my ordeal I was snooping W phone while she was asleep and found some texts to friends saying that she wanted to wait until the end of the school year to separate. So I can relate to your sitch. In my case, as soon as I found out she was going out with OM I didn't say anything just gathered up all her stuff from the MBR and put it in the spare room. The next day I asked her to move out. I didn't do this out of anger but rather to protect myself and our kids. Not trying to suggest that you do this, it was just my experience.

I actually did this before I knew about DBing and WW and it turns out that this is the advice we get from Sandi.