Hi vge - I have been thinking about you, its good to get an update.
Sounds like you have options for your future treatment plan, quite a lot to consider. You have consistently show us courage and strength with your fight against the demon c, so I know you will do what you feel is right for you and your family and not what anyone else feels you should do, sheez, you are such an inspiration!
Your h really can't let you go can he?! The thought of losing his control over you is really showing now that you are no longer biting back. Well done for recognizing that he trying every manipulation tactic he has to get his own way and removing yourself from his crazy. This shows you are gaining your power back, that's great to see vge. Can you see how far you have come since you first joined here - I can, so proud of you my friend.
If you are not clear on what the terms of your mediation agreement are and what you may be entitled to for different scenario's - like your h loss of income, remarriage etc then do seek advice, you dont have to act upon it if you don't want to, but at least you will know where you stand if you do. Your h has shown no regard for you or your children throughout this time so he deserves no respect or mercy when it comes to making sure you and your family are provided for, its unfortunately the messy business end of this.
Its a new year; renewed faith that life will be calmer and less turbulent, that happiness and peace will descend upon your soul, for you vge deserve nothing less than this.
