Thank you bttrfly. Yes, my Dad is still pain free. D18 (in town from her school) and I went and had lunch with my Mom and Dad. It's amazing how well he is doing with the cancer - I asked him if he is having any pain, and no, he has no pain even in his joints. He is sleeping well. Wow!
D18 is staying at W and om's place, but she has come over. We watched 'The 2nd Exotic Marigold Hotel', which was great.
I am just reporting here - Before I brought D18 back to W's place, I asked her if she and s14 were safe. Om has drinking and anger issues in his past. D18 volunteered that om is still on a pill that keeps him away from drinking. She feels safe.
But she volunteered that om and s14 don't like each other. S14 is being a teenager, and leaves food and dishes out, and om is the one to always clean up after him. But he shows s14 he is annoyed. (Yay s14?! )
He is also a smoker. W told d18 that om has "anxiety issues". And that he is not very intelligent and is racist.
The racism thing is something we never permitted, so this is surprising. Our oldest daughter is from India, and while she was growing up we always stood up to any stupid comments that were made around us. Add this to the long list of things I don't understand in W's behavior.
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