Battles of the sexes?

[JulieH]

Maximus, So glad things are working out better for you. You were able to put my suggestions in much better words, but that is the jist of what I meant.

I think I am understanding Maximus differently though. As a female, I would much rather have hot dirty sex with my husband then ML with husband. To me the physical feeling would be better. But to get to that place, I would need to feel like I myself am the object of lust. I think even if we were fighting and had resentment, if my husband desired me that way and showed me that desire I would reciprocate. I think good sex would actually help with a lot of the resentments. It would help to see how ridiculous it is to fight over something so insignificant (mopping floors, running late) when you could give each other that type of pleasure.

I certainly would not want it to feel forced or unnatural or an obligation and I believe that if it has that feel to it, eventually a woman would lose the desire.