Is there way to check the marriage records at the local court house? That would tell you whether or not they are legally married.
I had so hoped that you could get some of the 401K. What a bummer!
Hang in there! God has a way of turning things around and he doesn't like people being "ugly" to others. Something surely has to turn around for you this year.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
