Thank you job. He got to keep his 401k in mediation because it was close to the amount of equity in our home which I was awarded to keep. But I think I'd have to consult an atty to hire a PI to prove "work" for his new wife. He's got a lot of legal advice coming in for free anyway - a few of her friends & (his cousin is a family atty & former judge). I'm trying to remain calm & not stress.
On another note, I don't know if OW declared herself married cuz if she did then she loses the social security death benefit of her late husband. I still don't know if they are legally married or just performed a "ceremony". If I wanted to investigate & spend more $$ to prove all this stuff ... Would it be worth it? I'm not going for vengeance just maintain child support, health insurance and spousal support (it isn't much for 14 more months but I need it!)
I need a good job so I don't have to deal with all of his nonsense.
