G, my advice is to take it very slowly. You don't want to make any big moves in your life to get closer to someone you haven't been with that long. If he can't wait then he isn't the one! I once dated a woman who wanted me to move in after a couple of months. I said I didn't think that would be good for our relationship...it was too new. Two months later she dumped me because she discovered she didn't love me "it was just lust"...uh, ok. I said it seemed odd that two months ago she wanted me to move in and now I'm history, she said "I guess you made a good decision then, didn't you". So don't rush things. I know distance can be a real challenge in the beginnng 'cuz that's the time when all those really powerful feelings come into play but you see that he's not been on his own that long and you don't want to pull up stakes to move and cause adjustment issues for your daughter or yourself. Give it time and if he can't deal with it...move on.