I just remember he kept pushing me to let s5 and s7 walk to school alone so I could work...ummm hell no..That and his need to tell me I have no ambition and do not have a good work ethic
Among MANY crazy things my H did & said he called me a bad mom, said he needed to leave to get the kids away from me and said I got pregnant with #5 (our 3rd together, I have 2 kids from my first marriage) to try and trap him. .....
He has since told me none of that was true but it made himself feel better and the affair and leaving me while I was pregnant. ... he had to justify his actions to himself.
That's why the vets say "believe nothing they say and 50% of what they do" Just keep telling yourself that whenever he spews nonsense.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction