OM: Very simple: you have no control. She will introduce the kids to OM if she wants to and if you decide to fight that battle, you will lose. What have have control over is how you react to it. Is it hurtful for you? What part of it hurts? Do you think the kids will be harmed by meeting him?
Kidneys: She hasn't told you directly, right? Are you afraid that she will think you're insensitive? What if she does? If you told her, how would you go about it? What reaction would you be hoping for?
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
