A new way of thinking...

[Vanilla]

This is still a sweet cycle.

Start this stuff after your D. Be aware that whatever you say and do may be used as leverage.

Every time it's turned against you, you say next time and there is a sweet loving confused man inside.

It's the same pattern every time and it's life's lesson, will keep repeating until you learn what it has to teach you.


Portia Nelson
“I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I fall in.
I am lost... I am helpless.
It isn't my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don't see it.
I fall in again.
I can't believe I am in the same place.
But, it isn't my fault.
It still takes me a long time to get out.

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there.
I still fall in. It's a habit.
My eyes are open.
I know where I am.
It is my fault. I get out immediately.

walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.

I walk down another street.”


Portia Nelson, There's a Hole in My Sidewalk


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