Originally Posted By: Ancaire
M - my dream is to leave the door cracked just enough, so that when H remembers who he is, he'll know he can come home. There can be no R right now. He's not himself, and I have too much healing to do. But one day? I'd like to be strong enough - because if he does wake up, he's going to need me to be. His actions now are the polar opposite of who he used to be. He's going to be carrying loads of regret and shame.

So, how to leave an open door? Right now, I'm slamming it in his face.

Uau, Ancaire. That is the one million dollars/euro question. When you find the answer please share it (for free) smile...


Me43 W39
M 12y,T 15y
S09,S07
Bomb Jun14
Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15
Share bed Mar/May15
Reconcile Jun15
Aug15 W sais D will happen
D told to kids Sept15
W moved out with kids 01 October15