Hello, IP! Just dropping in to check on you, and let you know I'm thinking about you today. I know how hard this is, but I can tell you - it's getting better for me. I was an emotional basket case, but finally, finally...starting to get my feet on solid ground again.
The more you can think about other things, so you spend less time on H? The better it will be. Mona's rearranging suggestion was really quite good. Look for things that require a lot of concentration, too.
You're doing fine - and this will all get better. Promise.