First from your other thread, I think it was i'malright? that said to drop the rope. I second that. Drop the rope and try not to let your thoughts wander to where your h was.
Mlcer's also have a terrible time sleeping, so your h is hitting all parts. As your h tells you things, do as you did yesterday and let him talk with no judgment on your part. They do have a tendency to "tell" on themselves and some good listening will help to put the pieces together as to what's on his mind. Hope his stomach is okay.
