Yes, D. Don't you do it!!! (Waving my finger at you...pointer finger)
She may be feeling the separation, but until she comes to you asking to work on the R, you have to remain solidly detached. You're still so shaky there, I worry about you.
You didn't break her. You can't fix her. You can only work on you. Detach, lovingly. Leave her to herself to figure out what she needs. She won't respond well to any help from you.
