Thanks y'all. This roller coaster is exhausting. I find myself feeling like a door mat just to keep peace. It seems like I'm bending and being flexible while he is allowed to rant, scream, accuse, criticize my character and lie yet. no one calls him out or if they do -he plays the victim. His texts are usually so lengthy that I'm having to dig through them to find out what is factual.
I usually don't respond because when I have trying to defend myself my atty said I sounded emotional & he sounded logical.?!?!? That's the narcissist. He is smooth.
Anyway, XH hasn't had a real job since last October. No health insurance for my children until I asked where are the insurance cards. now he only covers the 2 older children (his wife is the primary)but he's complaining that it's costing him $$ & since he doesn't have a job that the premium exceeds 9% of his resources so he's hired another atty. He's also filing for unemployment.
Guess what? He withdrew his 401k and helped open a convenience store next to her bar & soon will open a taco stand as part of the store. But he claims these are all his wife's businesses. nothing is in his name either. Since we live in TX - child support & alimony are only from the ex spouse unless I go back to court $$$$ & try to dig if he's working or owns part of the businesses.
