I just read your entire thread. I think you are doing very well and you are following some great advise. He isn't a vanisher so it's harder because you interact with him.
Your kids are watching you and it's important you show them strength. Your H had some very confusing moments. Sadly he has to figure it out for himself and you can't say anything to help him along with his MLC
I too am in my 2nd MLC with my W. It's a lot worse but similar. Her actions and words. I said I would not go through this a 2nd time but look where I am. Standing.
Continue your journey for you and your kids. Your H is missing out big time. It will all hit him one day or he will be searching forever.
Why should you be in limbo and wait for him to decide your fate. In the end if he decides he wants it all back, it will be you who decides if you want him back. In the meantime you will have grown and changed to be a more complete person and that is where you find your own happiness.
My prayers are with you and all the LBS here and those who are reading these post looking for answers xx hugs oo
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015
