Yes, my W is still at home. A month ago when I asked her what she thought about counseling and if she thought it would work, she said that's why she is still at home so I have some hope. W has told me that she wants out but also is looking to see if MC can help me. Again, mixed signals but as long as at home and in counseling, there's hope. Backing off is difficult. The natural response is to discuss the problems and fix it. She never had the inclination to discuss before acting. There was little warning. Ironically, she has told me once (and several mutual friends) that we should D and remarry in two years???
