Thanks so much for sharing this Albuquerque! I'm only 5 months in, and have just started thinking rationally again. I've realized H's MLC could go on for years. I'm not making any decisions about the future now, other than one.

I am going to take this time and selfishly devote it to me. I've got so many hurts from life built up inside me, that I've got plenty to focus on. I figure this will keep me busy for the next couple of years, and then I'll see where I am.

Cadet, thanks for posting the links! You've gotta know that's the first thing I wanted to do...a success story? Did it start like mine? LOL

Thanks again. I needed the positive reinforcement today. smile


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti