Thanks so much for sharing this Albuquerque! I'm only 5 months in, and have just started thinking rationally again. I've realized H's MLC could go on for years. I'm not making any decisions about the future now, other than one.
I am going to take this time and selfishly devote it to me. I've got so many hurts from life built up inside me, that I've got plenty to focus on. I figure this will keep me busy for the next couple of years, and then I'll see where I am.
Cadet, thanks for posting the links! You've gotta know that's the first thing I wanted to do...a success story? Did it start like mine? LOL
Thanks again. I needed the positive reinforcement today.