Hi Ancaire. Sorry to jump into the conversation so late but it never ceases to amaze me how all of these stories are the same. I just two days ago had the nearly identical conversation with my wife. How amazing is it that she would explode by my simply stating that I do not want to meet with her. I told her that I would be respectful when we are together but that I was not ready to be chummy. Unfortunately there are frequent public events where we have to stand next to each other. Very hard. She also has no comprehension of why I could possibly have hurt in regard to her. Wow the angry stage for a WAS! Whoda thunk?


M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.