Hi Bobby, I'm sorry you're finding things tough. It is early days in terms of healing. In your posts, your focus is very much on your XW and the recent end of your M.

Can I ask you what you are doing for yourself in order to move forward? Regardless of what your XW may do - what are you doing to assist your healing, to learn how to have a better R next time around, to build new social links, make new friends, get out and do things.

There may not be much you can do WRT her just now, but there are many things you can do for yourself. Can you tell us a little more about what you are up to??

Take care xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus