My Wife says that over the years and she says this is many years I have neglected her I have put my work in front of her and our children, she is particularly unhappy and has been for quite some time she tells me that she has a lot of resentment because of the way that I have spoken to her and to our children and now she just does not feel any love for me any longer she sees me just as a friend she will talk to me spend some time with me we have even been out for lunch but I am starting to realise this is not bringing us closer together.
Her unhappiness is not YOUR fault! She will still be unhappy after she divorces YOU.
You need to LET GO and let her see if she realizes this fact on her own.
Be the BEST DAD that you can be. That is VERY attractive.