Working on the second month now since the bomb drop and still not much has changed. Basically the only thing that has changed in the MR is that we have stopped saying ILY and have stopped touching each other whatsoever. We haven't had sexual relations since August so that's nothing new. Sometimes she will slip and say ILY, and then quickly respond with an "I'm sorry" once she realized what she said. Still working on myself as much as possible and she has started making comments about my physical appearance since I've been back in the gym for about 5 weeks now. I feel really good and the information from the books and from this forum has been incredible.
I really wish I knew what was in my wife's head at this point because she doesn't share much about what's going on. But I think the less interested she perceives me to be, the better. So I'm just going to let her open up on that when she's ready. Hopefully sooner than later since we have some big life changes coming up very soon...
