Didn't notice I was at 100 already so it's time to start a new thread. I'm not really sure how to link old thread here. Those that have helped me so far know the story. Those that haven't it's titles WaW and trying to repair.
I'm not sure what I am going to do here. W is I assume still pissed about me talking to her friend pre DB. And it's not that I'm scared of her being angry or care that she's mad. It's her choice to be upset by it. What is bothering me is when she comes to me looking to fight about it. I am going to use all I have learned here in the last week and try to keep cool. I know if she approaches me with it I am going to start by saying. I understand your angry about me talking to your friend, is anything I say about it to you really going to change how you feel about any of this? Also I want to add. When I was talking to your family and friend I was looking for something to help me with you. It was out of fear and anger. I still get scared. I still get upset sometimes and I'm working to get past that. For the last week I am happier than I have been in almost 3 months because my focus has shifted from what I can do for you to what I can be for my children and myself.
At that point if she still wants to fight is where I walk away and say. I am not going to argue with you. If you want to discuss this without anger later let me know.
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The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
