I don't know the tone of the 'i love you', but if it's how I am imagining it I like it. I am imagining it to be kind of matter of fact. Like, "Yes, you're my wife, I love you...it won't stop me from kicking you to the curb if you continue to behave this way, and I'm not so needy I'm going to enable you to destroy our lives, but yeah, I love you...anyway, what do you think of this online parenting calendar?" That's pretty cold blooded. Good job.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15