WW, My Addiction, Patience is HARD

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I just gave Free advise to sit on his hands. I need to sit on mine for a few days right now.

I guess being 'neighborly' is proper right now. I completely went dark for those 3 days, and she noticed.
What is neighborly? I'll have to put some thought into that.

I did show her that I'm not letting my guard down. I looked through the WI parenting plan guide, and wrote things down for discussion. I also told her it would benefit us to probably talk about such things, just in case. I know that's putting pressure on her continuing to file, but I also told her I'd be here during these 60 days of 'super limbo' as I'm calling them, and here to talk. I did mention I loved her in our discussions - it was a judgement call, since she was showing me the courage to stop the process mid-beat.

The talking about divorce related things probably doesn't help my cause, but if Zues is right, it reinforces that I'm ready to go. She now knows very clearly now that I'm not going to beg and plead to stop the D.

I will need to really focus on detaching. thinking about every word I speak. But also show that I'm still the happy fun guy she married.

It's like walking on a razor.