So husband has kids this weekend. Kids have a classmates movie party to go to and husband asked if I would like to go with them all. He added a "for the kids".
Do you guys think this is a bit of a olive branch. But in a way that saves pride (he had asked a month ago about possibly working torwards a reconciliation)?
I have no desire to pretend to be a family "for the kids" When we are not. I don't do denial and pretenses for kids sake (still disturbed by MIL experience)
I did accept invitation, cause I know DB coach said to work torwards a friendship.
I think you need to accept some invites given the context.
I remember telling DB coach "when we're divorced I won't be doing this or that with her". DB Coach said "you're not divorced yet".
When was the last time you talked to DB Coach? Did you ask her about this weird standoff you're in?
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15