Hello I am still here and I have been reading other people's threads I have been trying to fix my marriage on my own but I realise that I do need some more advice. I have been reading online at other sites as well and I am getting confusing advice. I would like to adapt to the Divorce Busting methods and this appears to be work on myself and let go of my Wife. If I can give you a little more information about my situation and what has happened. My Wife says that over the years and she says this is many years I have neglected her I have put my work in front of her and our children, she is particularly unhappy and has been for quite some time she tells me that she has a lot of resentment because of the way that I have spoken to her and to our children and now she just does not feel any love for me any longer she sees me just as a friend she will talk to me spend some time with me we have even been out for lunch but I am starting to realise this is not bringing us closer together. So just to clarify 1) My Wife feels she has lost all loving feelings towards me and has bucket loads of resentment 2) She tells me that we should think about selling our house because it would make things clearer as to how she is feeling and that we can then both move forward and start our healing process. 3) she is not willing to go to marriage counselling does not want any outside help she is totally done with our marriage. I keep trying to talk to her and I keep trying to tell her that I am putting in much more work and effort but she tells me that she does not believe anything I say as I have let her down in the past Actions speak much louder than words. I really need some advice as to what I should do next as I really do feel that I am on borrowed time I do not want to give up on our marriage
