NYGal, maybe you're right. But unlike your W he hasn't wavered at all.
Just wait until they try to live in the same place! Long distance can be easy because you get to skip the taking out the trash and mopping the floor parts.
Which reminds me of another funny thing from the Homewrecker website: "Take my ex back after he's been with you??? (Censored) please, I don't want anything back after it has been in the trash!"
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
HA! But I think that only pertains to the first time he sneaked around on me - she didn't mean anything. This time he had the decency to dump and start divorce proceedings before it turned into a full blown affair.
Well, obviously he's not using his brain. If he's a serial cheater, he'll do it again on HER. She should be worried. (Mine's a serial cheater, too, btw, just not both times on me.)
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Haha. Maybe I should get with it and join that home wrecking site.
I don't think they will ever live in the same place. That's what I mean by it will stay fresh and passionate. They do have a lot in common.
Fresh and passionate can get old. There's something nice about sitting by the fireplace with a good book and a cup of tea, too. Oh no, there I go getting all sad again. OK, better now.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
I agree but my H doesn't like to sit still. Something has to happen. But as my friend said, big part of marriage is having someone to take care of you when you have hip surgery. Don't know that I will wait around another 30 years for him to realize that though, haha.
I agree but my H doesn't like to sit still. Something has to happen. But as my friend said, big part of marriage is having someone to take care of you when you have hip surgery. Don't know that I will wait around another 30 years for him to realize that though, haha.
:p.
My ongoing battle with lice has given me an epiphany. If a guy is willing to pick the nits on my head and on kid's head, I will swear my undying devotion for life. My money will be his money, his enemies will be my enemies. And woe will befall on anyone who dares hurt my nit-picker.
Your H and my X just aren't at the place in their lives where they are willing to take care of us in these ways.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
I know him well enough to know he's not a serial cheater. (not that I would be heartbroken if he did the same to ow)
That's a good epiphany, Grlonfr. I want a man like that too. A man who will look at my kid when she's losing it over some minuscule thing and think that is completely normal. A man who is unfazed by things.
She's a Homewrecker is a Facebook page. I got in big trouble once for sharing a meme from their page onto my own FB page. I love it! It said, "You lied. You cheated. You made it all my fault. That must make you a victim!"
Gmum...just FYI. The edit button is missing today. Older posts still can't be edited, but for some reason, we have no option to make any changes at all. Now I'm going to have to be a lot more careful!
