That's good advice, Julie. "Act as if" what? Act as if we're friends?
I've told him before that if we divorce he can count on never seeing me again, and I meant it.
I do feel very much the same as you do. My feelings are all over the place. I hate him. I love him. I miss him. I can't stand to be around him. I want him to apologize. He's not there yet.
I'm just so confused. What do I want? I want him to wake up. I want him to care enough about our children not to rip our family apart.
I don't understand why he's so upset about the thought of us not being friends. I thought that was the whole point of divorce?
