Judy, the day I moved out of my house I had 40 cents (canadian) left in my bank account. I was so angry and hurt that I had to suffer through all of it on my own. I held so much resentment towards my H for abandoning me when I needed him the most........then
I let it go! It was only hurting me. This was my here and now and I better make the most of it. I think my H felt the shift. I was excited about putting up my new bed, buying new living room furniture, enrolling in school. I was moving forward, because there is no going back. I'm going to continue moving forward and hopefully my H can catch up and keep up.
I know things look so bleak right now for you Judy, but I promise things will get better again. I do have to say, at my lowest I thought I would never climb out of this pit in hell, but I did. You will too!
You will get the funds to move out....seriously if you can gain access to any money, take it!!!! Enough for first and last. He can take it off equalization payment later. You need to heal. You can't do that with your H poking you with a stick any chance he can.
Please stay safe and ask for help. Your kids, your family, your friends. They will help you and we will always be here to listen and give our expert (or not so expert) opinions.
*hugs*
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
