Liked your responses. It's having an effect - that's WHAT you want. She has to feel you have changed. It will only stick if you truly change and detach. Be able to see the relationship at the 100 ft, 1,000 ft, and then the 10,000 ft level. When she engages you, and you used to retort back immediately, it fed the beast, Nate is great, he's still my backup, yay WW!
I did the detach thing, almost, and WW noticed. I was still too attached and hurt the first time around, and it just got back to me not yelling, but telling her how much I was hurting. Not attractive.
If you fail on an exchange, it's not the end of the world. But almost guaranteed she's going to make you feel like it's a huge bump in the road. Just remember everyone makes mistakes and she's trying to cover up her mistakes with your very small one. Throw it over your shoulder and keep walking the beach, listening to the waves.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
