Strangely, I can't edit my post today... I meant 'Notify' in the post, and also forgot to suggest I would encourage the contact between your D and W. It is vital for a future custody agreement.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17