Well, it's different if *you* set the parameters for time and space, you know?
A couple of suggestions - this board is searchable, so you may not want to include exact quotes from exchanges or names. If you click on the Report link to your post, Cadet can help edit out the name of your D.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
