Do you remember back when you were 4? If you closed your eyes, no one could see you??? Well, I'm hoping that principle still applies!!! I think I'm a little embarassed about how I look at that moment... or perhaps not exactly prepared to watch him watch me.
I totally agree with everyone's synopsis of this... not a great way to react. I have thought about it, and now, reading over my post and seeing yours, I can see how I should have done it. I think I'm trying to move too fast, and H is just not 'there' yet.
BUT........ I was hurt (a bit), and he did turn me down the first time I asked for something, so it was kind of just reacting, not thinking. I need to be prepared better the next time so that I'm ready for however he reacts.
Do you think he realizes how hard I'm trying???
Thank you all for your clarity... it's hard yet to see this from his point of view!
