Ancaire, mutatio is right. If he has to ask that question after all that he's done to you, you telling him the obvious doesnt seem like it will snap him out of his craziness.
Sorry to hear your H was being mean again.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
