Thank you. Opinions are what I'm looking for. This is helping immensely.
He used to be a good man. I did point out to him the other day when I was going off on him, that while I had apologized, over and over, for the things I did to bring the M down - he hasn't uttered one single word of apology.
I don't think he wants me to be mad at him. I believe he wants me to act like everything is hunky-dory so that he can delude himself into thinking he's done nothing wrong - we just "grew apart". That's his favorite line.
I've begged him to think of his children. I've offered to go to MC. He's not interested in anything other than doggedly pursuing this course he knows to be wrong.
I'm not sure why he's so upset at the thought of us not being friends. Like I said, my best guess is that he wants that to soothe his conscience.
