What I think is that he's under the delusion that he can divorce me, and we'll still get along and be friends afterwards. He was honestly shocked and offended that I told him we weren't going to be friends. If you'd seen the look on his face, you'd probably understand better.
I equate divorcing me and continuing a "friendship" with cake-eating. He gets to screw whomever he wants, while keeping me as his buddy. I'm willing to be his wife and friend, but not just his friend. We haven't even begun to address this - this is the first time, so I want to be sure and get it right.
I'm not going to answer for a long while - until I've gotten plenty of input on the subject.
