More news...so he came to my room to ask if I was irritated with him. I said yes, and explained that he was going against our agreement set up by our L's by moving things around without asking me. He explained his thoughts, and I said I understood, he'd just done it without even checking, and he's put himself into a place it was going to be harder to avoid interacting with him and could he please stay away from my side of the house.

He asked why that was a problem, and I said, "Look. We're not going to be friends." He wanted to know why, and I answered that friends don't treat one another they way he's treated me.

He slammed out of here, and sent me a text saying: "How I treated you, really? The last talk we had you did all the bashing and and name calling, not me. I just sat there and took it." I responded, "I'm sorry. I shouldn't have done that." Now he wants to know, "So, how have I been treating you badly?"

Really? He wants me to spell it out? I haven't answered. I'm planning to just ignore him. What do you guys think? Should I have to spell it out?


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti