Well that talk happened before I could get advice and I f' in nailed it! I had to go to her work to switch vehicles to pick up the boys from day care. w: I got a job interview tomorrow! Me: glad to hear that W: it's exciting Be excited for me Me: it's good you got an interview. I'm not going to be excited about what's going on with your plans involving leaving me. She was taken aback and just kind of mumbled leaving you. And then asked me how my day was. I told her it went well and told a short 45 second funny story about that day. She mentioned getting her nails done by a friend tonight to which I said ok. I am going out tonight so you will need to all babysitter. Then she said she was sorry she didn't ask if I had plans earlier in the day. then we talked about what to do for supper and I said sounds good I'm off to get the boys.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.