I've decided to do nothing right now and stfu. Best to sleep on this and not make any bad emotional decisions. I'm leaving for the night. No way I can see her today. I told my kids that I'm going to a friends house to help him with some remodeling work and I'll be home in the morning. I'll be at a hotel putting my plan together. Not sure how it will look, but it must include two things, protecting myself/my children and ending this mess of a M. Not what I hoped for, but I need to dump her a$$ immediately.
Me-40's W- 40's Married 22, Together 29 BD#1- 6/15 W needs space BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16 Still both home, but not for long