I caught my wife going through stuff on my nightstand. Either she's trying to figure out what new cologne I'm wearing now or she's beginning to wonder what I'm up to. Another thing - as I continue to work on detaching, my wife is slowly getting drawn in. She's starting to initiate touches and I woke up this morning with her snuggled up against me (I swear I didn't initiate!). I promise I won't read much into this other than to say that I think I'm on the right track.
Plans for weekend:
1) Workout. I will tell my wife where I'm going and she can come with if she'd like. But I'm going no matter what.
2) Prep for my job interview. Not going to lie - I'm super excited
3) Start putting away xmas decorations and clean up the house a bit
4) Watch a movie (with popcorn!) with the kids.
5) Watch an adult movie (No, not X-rated get your mind out of the gutter! I'm just looking for something not animated)
Wow Sci! I'm impressed. My situation is way different than yours but to see the progress you've made is remarkable and not to mention, very good to read. I see the detachment is paying off but just like you said, don't read into it. That's the hardest part of things. I will pray for you and your family.
[censored] that wake up calls like this are needed in order to shake up our lives for the better. No one is born with relationship skills, that's for sure.
