We HD women also need affirmation that we are desireable women. I really understand how you feel, very empty and lonly in your marriage. It is so painful to be rejected by the one that you love the most. Sad that our partners cannot understand us and that if only we had some attention, we could possibly survive. Instead, we die a bit each day.
Yeah, that's just how it feels. For me, at least, there's more to it than just how it feels. My wife is attentive and caring and loving in other ways, and I do need to accept that and take it to heart, it helps me survive. It's just ... well, I still feel so rejected and undesirable, and I HATE that feeling.
