My daughter's 1st birthday is next saturyday , unfortunately it will fall on her mother's weekend. Even though she said in a very sarcastic way in mediation " he is more then welcome to go if he likes" even my L notices that. I dont know if i should , since i will be surrounded by her family, and all her family have been very shady to me these past months. I just dont know what to do, it will be very awkward.