I caught my wife going through stuff on my nightstand. Either she's trying to figure out what new cologne I'm wearing now or she's beginning to wonder what I'm up to. Another thing - as I continue to work on detaching, my wife is slowly getting drawn in. She's starting to initiate touches and I woke up this morning with her snuggled up against me (I swear I didn't initiate!). I promise I won't read much into this other than to say that I think I'm on the right track.

Plans for weekend:

1) Workout. I will tell my wife where I'm going and she can come with if she'd like. But I'm going no matter what.

2) Prep for my job interview. Not going to lie - I'm super excited smile

3) Start putting away xmas decorations and clean up the house a bit

4) Watch a movie (with popcorn!) with the kids.

5) Watch an adult movie (No, not X-rated get your mind out of the gutter! I'm just looking for something not animated)

Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou