Quote: I may be intially atracted to a handsome man, but if he is a dumb as a stump, I won't stay with him for more than a second. I'll find the intelligent, kind, and witty man that challenges me instead....
For us HDs, I'm not at all convinced that trying to be more attractive is always important. I seem to be attractive enough to interest lots of other people, just not my wife. And no, I'm not sleeping around, but it's hard not to notice. Especially when something inside of me is really crying out for affirmation as a man.
So what I need is a way to not be attractive to anybody except for my wife, and to be attractive to her ;->
Sometimes I long for the old days where I was just plain too naive to recognize attraction...
