Hi All. I have been lurking these last few months and just got up the courage to post. I've never before posted on any kind of forum. My story is similar to many others. I got the ILYBINILWY speech in July 2014. My H said he was unhappy, I was controlling and he thought our relationship was bad for our young boys. A few months later he moved out. I did all the wrong things in the beginning..begging/pleading/saying things would change, but it did no good. I snooped in his accounts and then would confront him with accusations that I didn't necessarily know were true. I made up stories in my head about what he was doing and convinced myself they were real. I am now getting to a place where I know I need to detach, but can't seem to find the right path. Everyone is so helpful and I really need advice.
M: Early 40s H: late 30s 2 kids under 10 M: 15 yrs BD: 7/14 S: 10/14
